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Friday, July 5, 2013

Dumpster Diving

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Life with a special needs child involves things I never thought imaginable.  Levi loves to collect certain things.  I've talked about it before.  Ropes, string, balloons, gum, dish towels, and newspaper ads/coupons.

A typical fridge with children/grandchildren/nieces/nephews/neighborhood vagabonds is covered in darling artwork that to the adult eye may look like scribbles and hand prints but to the child who is the next Van Gogh it is a master piece.

Not my fridge.  My fridge is covered in the mailed weekly grocery store ads that have been painstakingly gone over time and time again and each item that is wanted is circled and talked about and each newspaper is carried around in hand for a day or so until it is posted on the fridge along with the coupons that come in the mail for food items.  You do NOT remove these items from the fridge.  I don't care if you need the magnet to put something else up on the fridge, say, another darling Native's artwork or an important reminder like a wedding announcement.  Go find another magnet or better yet, go find another fridge!  What ever you do, do NOT break this rule.

Yesterday we went to the local city parade.  We were sitting minding our own business watching the colorful floats go by with Miss Mary Cow Dairy and her promenade go by and other like floats.  As we sat and watched, random people would walk by and hand out coupons to local businesses.  Levi was in heaven!  His little hands full of coupons!  Who cares about the local high school bands marching by looking half wilted in the heat blowing their horns!  Coupons!!  

Levi came home and........... put them on the fridge.  This morning I was busily cleaning the kitchen that looks like one of the floats from the parade blew up in my kitchen when I came across some papers I needed to put on the fridge for later use.  Without thinking.............  I BROKE THE RULE!  I grabbed a magnet, tossed the coupon for some local restaurant in the garbage and GASP!  Levi saw me.

I tried to brush it off as no big deal and told him other coupons would come in the mail and to go and play and yadda yadda yadda.  He would't let it go.  Is the coupon going to the dump?  Do we need to go to another parade to get another coupon?  How could I let the coupon go to the dump?  

This went on for about five minutes.  I continued to clean the kitchen and then I heard it.  Noooooooo!  Not the dreaded sniffle!!!  NOOOOOOOooooooooo!  I look over and the tears are flowing and Levi is standing there asking me how could I and in my mind I'm cursing the people handing out coupons at the parade as I tromp outside to once again............  dig through the garbage to find the coupon that I have thoughtlessly thrown away.  I can't tell you how many times I have dug through my disgusting garbage for this child because what is trash to me is treasure to him that he can't live without.

I walk back into the house with a plastic smile on my face and hand Levi back his coupon.  He takes it from me and with a genuine smile on his tear streaked face he walks over to the fridge, studies it for a few minutes trying to decide just where it should go because the place where it originally was apparently isn't good enough now.  With the eye of a master artist he moves some other coupons around and finds the perfect place for the saved from the dumpster coupon and places it smack dab at eye level in the middle of the fridge.  With a satisfied grin Levi turns and walks away.  Once again order has been established in his world.  

I also step back and take a look at the fridge.  A fridge that to the untrained eye would look like coupons, newspaper ads, scribbles, and hand prints  but to this mommy, it totally looks like a Renoir on my fridge.  A masterpeace (pun intended).

11 comments:

  1. I didn't know about this. I've seen dragons on your fridge, and a number of other things. But I'm behind. I mean, the last time I was in your kitchen, I took a header and ended up in a pile on the floor. Not the best angle from which to appreciate a newly populated fridge. Ah, Levi. You never let us forget that we are alive.

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    1. Adding them to the fridge has been something he's started in the last year or so. He's always carried them around, now he's found he can put them somewhere besides his dresser drawers and backpack.

      The gate you tumbled over has been moved to block the stairs so both the kitchen and front room are open. You can come over again without fearing for your fall into a humble heap at our feet life. :D

      That really was funny. Not the part where you got bumps and bruises, just the whole event! We sat and looked at each other astonished! And then the laughing............

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  2. loving Levi is one of the best things you do each and every day....
    His heart.
    Your heart.

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    1. Levi makes it easy to love him. Not hard at all.

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  3. if only you recycled, your dumpster diving wouldn't be so messy ;)

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    1. Have you seen my blue can? I do recycle. I recycle a ton! The blue can only gets dumped every other week. When it is full...... then I have to use the black can........ I wish the city would dump it weekly.

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    2. i know, you've commented about levi throwing trash in there before. guess you need 2 blue cans ;)

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    3. The worst is when Levi throws garbage away in the green can and we don't know it and get cited for it! Argh!

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  4. Levi is a boy after my own heart. Maybe if you had a space on the wall in his room we could paint a square with magnetic paint or make a magnetized chalk board where he could hang his coupons, thus freeing up your fridge space?!

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    1. I love that you said, "we". :D I'd gladly take help with a project like that. We could do the wall next to his bed! I didn't know they made magnetized chalk board paint! That is just cool!

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  5. You're such a good mommy--it's OK if you have a few off moments ;-)
    The magnetized wall is a great idea--except I haven't had a lot of luck with it! If you do try it (generally it's a primer you apply under chalkboard paint), STIR STIR STIR and STIR some more! Or just get a piece of sheet metal (make sure you take a magnet with you to the store to make sure you're not getting aluminum) and screw it to the wall. That may be easier!

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